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Wordless Wednesday #183 – Foster Dog Maggie

April 16, 2014 9 comments

Wordless Wednesday #179 – Dusk

March 18, 2014 8 comments

Wordless Wednesday #175 – Winter’s Fun Continues

February 19, 2014 14 comments

Black and White Sunday #70 – Snow on his nose

February 2, 2014 21 comments

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My thanks to our hosts for this blog hop Dachshund Nola and Sugar The Golden Retriever.

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Wordless Wednesday #172 – Wanna play?

January 29, 2014 12 comments

Black and White Sunday #69 – Eyeing the ball

January 18, 2014 1 comment

Maggie takes small steps forward – A puppy mill dog’s journey

January 6, 2014 35 comments

IMG_1963If you read my post from last Thursday, then you know about Maggie, our new foster dog.

That post provided you with some general information on Maggie’s background and her fears and shared some videos of her outside.

If you don’t know, Maggie came from a puppy mill and has been staying with us just a little over a week. Dogs like Maggie,  are often damaged – emotionally and physically. Building trust with them is difficult. It takes time, patience and dedication. Oh yes, did I mention time?

My Lab Daisy took almost three years to come out of her shell. People who meet her now would never guess how emotionally damaged and scarred she was when she came to me just over 6 years ago. I still see it sometimes, it never goes completely away, but she is miles from where she started. For that, I am grateful.

When Daisy first came to live with me, I made sure to give her a lot of time and space – time to get used to me, Aspen (my dog) and our routine and space to decompress and adjust to this new life she had.  I wanted her to have a say in what she felt comfortable doing and I wanted it to be on her timeline. Building trust with her was my goal, but that could’t be done completely on my terms. That had to be done on her terms. If I forced her to do something just because I wanted her to do it, I would have risked her shutting down or regressing, and I most certainly would have destroyed any trust she had with me. So instead we worked together, in tandem, with Daisy telling me when something was too much for her and when she felt she could trust me enough to push past her discomfort. it required me to listen to her and to watch her body language in order to know I needed to stop or move forward.

What I did with Daisy is similar to the approach I am using with Maggie. The only difference between then and now is that I have a little more wisdom and experience this time around, and I have a few more resources at my disposal.

IMG_2145In Maggie’s first few days with us, I tried to give her some space, some time to adjust – to me, to my dogs and to our routine. Now I am focused on building her trust. There are two things I am doing to help build that trust (with more to follow as she progresses). The first is modeled after a video I shared on my blog a year ago showing how you can determine if your own dog likes to be petted by you. I recommend watching it, if you haven’t already, and trying it with your own dog.

Briefly, what I have been doing is petting Maggie for a short period of time and then letting her tell me if she wants me to continue or stop. It’s taken some time for her to figure out that she has a say but she has started to realize that if I pet her and stop, she can tell me if she wants me to continue by simply nudging her nose at my hand or by touching my hand or making a movement with her nose towards my hand.If she does not want to be touched she stops nudging me and I stop petting her.

Here is a video demonstrating that behavior. As you can see, there is one point at which she becomes distracted by a noise and looks around. I let her and wait to see if she chooses to come back to me for more petting. I don’t try to get her attention back, I just wait and let her decide, which she does. This is Maggie choosing on her own what she wants from me. Pretty cool huh?

The second thing I am doing is similar to the first, except I am asking her to do something in return for some cheese. It’s called hand targeting. I don’t have a video of this with Maggie yet, but Debbie Jacobs from FearfulDogs.com was kind enough to direct me to some of her videos on hand targeting that she did with her dog Nibbles, who came from a hoarding situation. I have included one video below, but I would really recommend going to her post titles “Nibbles” so you can see a few of the videos of her work with Nibbles and hand targeting.

If you are working with a dog like Maggie or Nibbles, you should absolutely check out the rest of Debbie’s videos and blog posts about Nibbles. He has made such amazing progress in her expert care. To me, Nibbles is proof that sometimes you can rehabilitate dogs like he and Maggie and give them a good quality life.

I will continue to work with Maggie to help her along her journey, but I know it will be a slow process that will have its ups and downs. It just takes time and patience.

Note: Maggie is one of the lucky ones, she got out of her puppy mill, but there are many more still living a life of hell. Please continue to spread the word about puppy mills and the damage they do to dogs like Maggie. Not every dog can be saved, but every dog should have a chance.

Black and White Sunday #67 – The phases of a sleepy dog

December 29, 2013 27 comments

This is Maggie. She was rescued from a puppy mill this past summer. Sleep doesn’t come easy to dogs like Maggie because they are constantly in a state of high alert and fear. To capture her like this was a joy.

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My thanks to our hosts for this blog hop Dachshund Nola and Sugar The Golden Retriever.

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Merry Christmas from No Dog About It

December 23, 2013 27 comments

We’re going to take the next few days off to enjoy the holiday and spend some time with family.

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We want to thank you for reading and for sharing your own lives and stories with us.

May you find some magic and wonderment this Christmas holiday,

no matter how you choose spend it.

Merry Christmas JasperMerry Christmas from Daisy, Jasper, Cupcake and me (Mel). 

Black and White Sunday #66 – Sheltie Winter Wonderland

December 22, 2013 27 comments

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My thanks to our hosts for this blog hop Dachshund Nola and Sugar The Golden Retriever.

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